The
day was beautiful and perfect. I’ll let
the pictures speak for themselves.
Before
the pictures, here are my vows to my husband, William Lucas Day
Lucas,
You
are an answer to a prayer I forgot how to pray.
You have been a light to remind me that God still loves me and you help
to show me that every day. And the truth is, I gave my heart away a long time
ago, my whole heart, and I never really got it back. I love you William Lucas Day and I’ll love
you tomorrow and every day after that!
When I
look into your crystal blue eyes I lose myself.
I feel your heart. I can hear
your thought. I am thrilled, blessed and
excited that you are now a forever part of my daily life. It just makes sense in every single thought,
plan, desire and way. To say I love you
seems so inadequate. But I know that I
was created to love you and be loved by you!
Being
in love with you makes sense. It brings
joy, happiness, peace, contentment and sound mind. It is beautiful and perfect. Being in love with you is more than just the
simple I love or I miss you – it is fulfilling, breathtaking, perfect, true,
pure and forever. It is the light in the
morning and the goodnight’s rest each night.
It is the reason to smile and laugh.
It is the tears of joy and contentment.
I
often find myself caught in thoughts.
Those thoughts are no longer silent, they speak. They speak of love and life – happiness and
joy. They speak perfect and wonderful –
together and forever. They speak lifetime
and eternity. The speak Rachel and
Lucas.
To
know you is to love you. To touch you is
to desire you. To hug you is to feel
your soul. To kiss you is to see your
heart.
You
are my voice of reason and my purpose for life.
You are my sounding board and my forever good morning. You are my protector and life partner.
You
have opened a piece of me that I didn’t know existed. I used to pray for a Christ-like love from a
husband. I had given up on that
prayer. The day you walked back into our
lives, that piece of me began to wake up.
I can’t say the moment you hugged me the first time in 16 years I felt
it, but it began to grow. My promise to
you long ago was to make sure Haley knew you loved her, and deep down I told
myself that you loved me too. Each day
as our daughter grew, I saw you. With
each joke, smile, good day and bad day – I was able to love you. Our daughter is the best parts of both of us. Beautiful, hardheaded, vibrant, cherished,
loving, giving, outgoing, a fighter, a lover, caring, daring and the perfect
creation of me and you. She is the house
that was built to bring us here to this day, for this moment to cherish for the
rest of our lives. Her life has been the
house for the love that we didn’t realize we had 17 years ago. I can’t thank you or God enough for her.
Thank
you for being the daddy Haley needs. In
her eyes, you are perfect. A little
rough around the edges, completely hilarious but she would have you no other
way. You are a completion of her inner
being. You love her just the way she
is – and as much as I hate to admit it, she is also a daddy’s girl. Her eyes light up when she talks about
you. You are her bandage wrapper and
boo-boo fixer, her foot rubber and her bag of happiness wrapped up in
jokes. Her love for you is deep, pure,
whole and cherished. You are her hero
and soundboard. You are her today and
tomorrow. You are the gauge for her finding
a man to love her wholly.
Our
sons, Chandler and Hunter are very blessed to have a man like you to show them
how to love a woman, how to fight and stand up for what is right, how to
forgive others and love Jesus. Chandler
loves the time and long talks the two of you share. He admires your inner strength and your total
truth in all things. He loves your love
for me and our family. Hunter loves your
love for him. He knows that no matter
what, daddy is going to make everything better.
You pouring into them, loving them, and believing in who they are and
what they were created to be is so humbling and breathtaking. It is an honor to be your wife and their mom.
I love
you more. More today than yesterday –
more tomorrow than today – more than any argument or disagreement– more than
sickness – more than the world around us – more than sleeping late on the
weekends – more than dove dark chocolate or even birthday cake – more than the
words in the dictionary. I love the way
you look at me. I love the way you hold
me. I love the way you say my name. I love the way you believe in me. I love the way you reassure me. I love the way you are patient with me. I love the way you grab my hand when I’m
happy and when I’m sad. I love the way
you kiss me. I love the way you see my
soul. I love the way you cheer me on. I
love the way you hug me. I love the way
you tell me I’m beautiful. I love the
way you gently rub my face. I love the
simple gestures you do for me. I love
the way you make my coffee. I love the
way you cheer with me on the sidelines of a ballgame. I love how you love our children. I love that you stand up for us. I love the way you talk about the kids. I love the way you encourage the kids. I love the way you are a dad. I love how we debate but never fight. I love that you came back. I love that you love me and most importantly,
I love the way you love me. William
Lucas, I am in love with you and I love you more than the waves in the ocean,
and I’ll always love you more.
Thank
you for loving me and cherishing me.
Thank you for picking me up and putting me back together. Thank you for helping me realize my worth as
a woman. Thank you for thinking I’m
worth more and thank you for giving me your love – a love that is pure and
unwavering, a love that is perfect and filling, a love that never gives doubt
or hurt, a love that grows and wants to love me more tomorrow than today!
You've
taught me that the honesty of a man starts within himself. You have shown me
selfless love with no conditions. A love I've never known. A fairytale kind of
love. A love where your only job is to do for the other, and this in turn will
deliver the same feeling of satisfaction within. No one can hold a candle to the love and
happiness you have brought into my life.
You
took my soul with just one touch. Loving
you is an honor and something I cherish from the depth of my soul. In you I have found the one my soul
loves. That’s exactly why I love you,
because you love me.
I want
to make you proud each and every single day.
Proud to be my husband, the mother of your children and the love of your
life. I want to make you proud of
yesterday, today, tomorrow and forever.
So,
today and forever I choose you. I choose
your love, I choose your name. I choose your side to stand beside. I choose your forever. I choose your daily dose of laughter. I choose your crazy jokes. I choose your crazy and sane. I choose your happiness, good days and bad
days. I choose your words meant only for
me. I choose your simple gestures and
beautiful flowers. I choose your
forever and always. I choose your daily
cup of coffee. I choose your here and
now, tomorrow and every day after that.
I choose you in sickness and health.
I choose your hand to hold and your back to rub. I choose your belief in me and in us. I
choose you for better or worse. I choose your daily hugs and countless
kisses. I choose your love that has no
condition. I choose you. I, Rachel Elizabeth, promise to love you
patiently, wholly, kindly, without envy or self-pride. I promise to cherish you, speak to you in
love, rejoice with you and love you in truth.
I promise to speak life into you daily.
I promise to daily love you with no condition. I promise and vow to bear all things, believe
in us always, pray for you daily, hope with you, enjoy life with you and endure
all things with you. I promise to kiss
you good morning with each sunrise and kiss you goodnight with each
sunset. I promise to love you always and
forever – from now until eternity with my whole heart, body and soul.
Vowing to love you for the rest of my life,
Your Wife,
Rachel Elizabeth Day